It was way back in 1980, when many of my hundreds of cousins were all trying to influence me into following the team that they followed.
Most of them back then were Souths & St George Supporters, with the remainder going for the Roosters, Eels, Balmain & a sprinkling of Manly fans.
The whirlwind of endless pressure was enough to convince me that they can all go & get stuffed, as the decision was made to choose my own team.
The next problem I had was to decide how I was to reach my life changing decision at the ripe old age of 5 years.
Living in the country, I had no ties to any Sydney region although my extended family in Sydney all lived in and around Fairfield.
I also previously lived in Canberra but the Raiders weren't formed until 1982.
I then thought of relating my decision back to my favourite colours which were also based previously on the only other team I new to support.
The mighty Azzuri.
As a first generation Aussie born to Italian Parents, Supporting the Italian National Football team was everything.
So many early mornings with family gatherings based sitting around the TV and yelling at the top of our lungs in support of the Azzuri. I'm sure the neighbours weren't impressed.
My sporting colours were stamped on my heart from the moment I was born, It was gonna be "Blue White & Me" forever.
Picking the Canterbury Bankstown Bulldogs was a decision made even sweeter by the fact that none of those pushing for my support went for the Bulldogs, they were my team.
A few years later when my parents decided to move further into the abyss in a town of a thousand people (All Aussies), Dad new that somehow he needed to try & get the other kids to accept us rather than continue to give us daily racial abuse, so he took us to play Rugby League & what you know.... the local football teams colours were Blue & White.
Because of the local teams colours alot of the kids and locals also supported the Bulldogs which also helped break the ice in building relationships which was great.
I fell in love with game, and as time went on most of the kids did get better with us... It took a long time though, and unfortunately some people will never change.
Thankfully though Rugby League and The Bulldogs got me through some of the toughest days of my life & for that I will be forever grateful.
What a great decision supporting the Bulldogs turned out to be..... 12 Grand Finals & 6 Premierships
"BLUE WHITE & ME WE ARE JUST MEANT TO BE".