That's a common misconception.While they are far from the norm, false reports do occur.
Family Courts actively encourage females to make false reports, which shits me to no end, as it is detrimental to actual victims.
That's a common misconception.While they are far from the norm, false reports do occur.
hahaProbably a “honey trap” planted by the tigers to free up cap space.
You use it to keep the shit off your dick ?The fuck is a condom ffs
Been there coped that. False allegations by my ex got me an AVO. Very convenient when trying to get access to my kids, but that was her ploy all along.That's a common misconception.
Family Courts actively encourage females to make false reports, which shits me to no end, as it is detrimental to actual victims.
I've got a mate that has a nasty bit of trash as an ex. They've got two kids together from 19 years back when she left him for another man. But anytime she needs money or work done she's quick to call him. It often seems like he's wizened up to her ways. But she conned him into paying her bond, taking time off work to move her furniture and helping out with her bond clean recently. After he'd done all that he asked her to dinner and she tells him that's fine if her new bf can come. He thought it might have been her giving him another shot at relationship redemption. He's a pretty intelligent bloke until she knocks on his door. Then he becomes an A grade moron.Been there coped that. False allegations by my ex got me an AVO. Very convenient when trying to get access to my kids, but that was her ploy all along.
My uncle had it worse though. His ex lied in court and made allegations that he had done things to his daughter which were 100% lies. She even made her daughter lie about it who was only young at the time. His ex was caught out with her lies and the courts did absolutely nothing about it except tell her that she needed to get her facts straights and a slap on the wrist.
My uncle, after years of fighting in court and spending most of his money still never got to see his daughter. He ended up dying of a broken heart at 50. I think the stress over the years of fighting for her took it's toll. What's even sadder is the mother poisoned the girl so bad with manipulation and lies that the daughter didn't even come to his funeral.
He was a great bloke brought down by a crazy, narcissist bitch who destroyed him in the end.
Edit: I forgot to add my uncle's ex never wanted the kid in the first place. She only used her as a pawn to hurt my uncle because she knew how much his daughter ment to him.
If a woman feels threatened by her partner even if it's just her perception then it's considered Domestic Violence.. It's fucked up and trivialises real domestic violence.For all we know he could have raised his voice at her... she got frightened and called the cops... then they just hit you with a DV charge...
Been there mate. I've spoke bout it a few times on here. Similar thing with my ex she ran off with another bloke. We also had 2 kids involved. At first I would do shit for her and help her out as i still had feelings for her and she knew how to manipulate me. She is cunning and I was somewhat retarded at that point. Anyway, It didn't happen for long as i quickly woke up to myself.I've got a mate that has a nasty bit of trash as an ex. They've got two kids together from 19 years back when she left him for another man. But anytime she needs money or work done she's quick to call him. It often seems like he's wizened up to her ways. But she conned him into paying her bond, taking time off work to move her furniture and helping out with her bond clean recently. After he'd done all that he asked her to dinner and she tells him that's fine if her new bf can come. He thought it might have been her giving him another shot at relationship redemption. He's a pretty intelligent bloke until she knocks on his door. Then he becomes an A grade moron.
Yep, that's how I got my AVO. She "felt" threatened even though I hadn't once physically or verbally abused her or even threatened to do anything to her. But because she "felt" it that was enough. Thing is the cops will easily give out AVO's like they are participation awards but defending them is like a whole different ball game. I ended up just having to cop it and have it over my head for 12 months.If a woman feels threatened by her partner even if it's just her perception then it's considered Domestic Violence.. It's fucked up and trivialises real domestic violence.
Hey 5 min is a long time....... for someCrazy chicks in fact are usually that way. That's the whole ying/yang of seeing a crazy chick. One minute she is playing with your balls, the next she is trying to cut them off.
My Dad told me "Son, never put your dick in crazy. For 5 minutes of fun they can give you a life time of hell"
It may not have been a life time but he was pretty right in what he was saying.
Feeling threatened is not violence. I feel sorry for you unless there's history of actual violence then it's unfair and unjust to cop that.Yep, that's how I got my AVO. She "felt" threatened even though I hadn't once physically or verbally abused her or even threatened to do anything to her. But because she "felt" it that was enough. Thing is the cops will easily give out AVO's like they are participation awards but defending them is like a whole different ball game. I ended up just having to cop it and have it over my head for 12 months.
That’s shit trying to brainwash kidsMy Best mate separated from his misses when there little girl was 1 year old.
Now that i am a father, i see how it killed her to lose her husband, she was still breast feeding and all of a sudden he left.
Many years later (Ella is 14 now) i dont think she is over it, he has moved on and has 2 kids with his new partner.
She has taken him to court so many times for trivial shit, he is poor but he has 50% custody.
The most recent court case was her wanting 100% custody, she even tried to brainwash there daughter into saying she wanted to live with her full time, (The grandmother was in here ear every day too)
I turned up to court to support him and there daughter got up and simply said, i want to keep the same arrangements.
I have never seen her mother and grandmother so pissed, apparently they didn't speak to her for a month afterwards, sometimes people are cruel
No history of it at all. The worst to happen would be both of us raising our voice at each other during a disagreement, and they were few and far between. It was unjust but unfortunately that's how the cookie crumbled in that situation.Feeling threatened is not violence. I feel sorry for you unless there's history of actual violence then it's unfair and unjust to cop that.
Nah, they never do. Somehow they can still play the victim even after they a proved wrong...If it is proven that this woman did have bruises caused by medication and made up these allegations, she better get charged with some heavy shit.
Is the social norm these days isnt it?Nah, they never do. Somehow they can still play the victim even after they a proved wrong...
Unfortunately yes.Is the social norm these days isnt it?