i used to be like that. Then i got to the stage where i was like, you know what? quit sooking! this is what you have, make do with it! suck it up princess. lol. But really, i wasn't as flawed as i thought hahahahaha. I know it's hard for us to see what others do, but i started to see them a few years ago. I think it also has to do with the company you keep as well. For example, i was in a relationship where my man made me feel like i was less than attractive and i'd see guys looking at me and think they were looking coz i was ugly. Then when i got out of it, i realised it was the opposite. They were checking me out but coz of how he made me feel, i thought i was ugly. Now i know i'm not!oh god i wish i could do that. all i see are flaws and it drives me nuts!
attractive girls who complain they are self conscious for attention...i think. dunno, forgot lolSo are you whinging about self concious girls? or just self concious girls who complain about being self concious?
meh my mum has been telling me i'm fat and ugly all my life. i'm pretty fixed in my thinking. i take compliments as insults as a result.i used to be like that. Then i got to the stage where i was like, you know what? quit sooking! this is what you have, make do with it! suck it up princess. lol. But really, i wasn't as flawed as i thought hahahahaha. I know it's hard for us to see what others do, but i started to see them a few years ago. I think it also has to do with the company you keep as well. For example, i was in a relationship where my man made me feel like i was less than attractive and i'd see guys looking at me and think they were looking coz i was ugly. Then when i got out of it, i realised it was the opposite. They were checking me out but coz of how he made me feel, i thought i was ugly. Now i know i'm not!
LMAO you're so right. I LOVE it when ugly girls that are 10 times fatter than me give me this bitcchy "ew" look and then strut around like they are king sh*t.overly confident *****es are usually fat bushpigs too lol its ****ed
spot on!attractive girls who complain they are self conscious for attention...i think. dunno, forgot lol
obviously you've never lived life with an abusive parent?i'm going to neck myself..
only because i'm real self confident :whacky:
The nail...you just hit it on the head.I am self conscious! People blab on about why i shouldn't be... But I am - I don't do it for attn. I try to not whinge... I have trouble taking compliments.. I don't know why I just do. Some days I am happy with myself... other days I am not.
My lack of confidence does not stem from my appearance.. it stems from other things, like being used by people whom you considered close friends etc...
these things i fully understand..and this is not a stab at people like you who are self concious for these reasonsI am self conscious! People blab on about why i shouldn't be... But I am - I don't do it for attn. I try to not whinge... I have trouble taking compliments.. I don't know why I just do. Some days I am happy with myself... other days I am not.
My lack of confidence does not stem from my appearance.. it stems from other things, like being used by people whom you considered close friends etc...
i have an anorexic client whith body dysmorphia. It's really sad. She sees herself as the world's fattest person. She's so thin and frail that if she bumps he arm or say her funny bone, she actually breaks it!you wait till you meet someone with proper body dysmorphia. they are the most negative towards body image out of anyone. they at least have a psychiatric condition to explain why they think they're fat and ugly when they're not. they're hardcore.
I'm not semi retarded like one of those blokes!!!LOL VB ad - Blokes punching above their weight.
Every time I see that I'll think of you.