I didnt see anything in that post suggesting that flame or anyone else is a better supporter. He and Alan are right, the negativity on here lately is ridiculous, and to use your argument against you, if people have the right to whinge about the club, they have the right to whinge about the whingers.
I'm not particularly happy about whats happening at the club but you dont see me sooking about it every chance I get. I come from the old school thought of if you dont have something nice to say, dont say anything at all. Seeing the same comments spewed in multiple threads by the same people is tiresome, and borderline childish.
You are then trying to label anyone who still has some pride in the club as some sort of hippy and telling them they are wrong to feel that way.
The majority of people who are identifying the issues are not band wagoners , these are life long passionate fans who are genuinely concerned about the clubs future.
Some people live n breathe football , its their religion.
These are the same people , myself included who have sacrificed attending family functions and responsibilities risking marital break downs just so they can watch and support their team.
Its natural to want answers and identify issues when things are changing for the worse .
For example the mind boggling swap of a charismatic , highly functioning captain for a shithouse rookie . The bizarre 5 year plan
The forum is like a lifeline to some , a place where we can discuss our problems regarding what went wrong and celebrate the joys of our team playing well.
We send good wishes to team members for birthdays , child births etc.
Its not just a one faceted emotion of happy happy joy joy because as humans we are a complex mix of many emotions which only caring for someone or something evokes.
If I don't care about something or someone I just ignore it or listen and say nothing , much like the ol 'if you haven't got something nice to say , say nothing at all because at the end of the day that something or someone means very little to me .