Good post and really good insight into what's happening. I can't argue with most of the things you said. These things obvioulsy played a part.
For 30 minutes we actually played really really well, so Pay must be doing at least something right.
Where we faulted was when the momentum changed, for some reason when Parra started getting more of the ball we didn't know how to respond. We just didn't absorb the pressure well.
Momentum is going to change in a game multiple times in 80 mins of footy. For some reason when it was 18-10(parra scored three tries in a row) we shit ourselves and hit the panic button, tried to play catch up footy and threw some dumb passes that got intercepted and the score hit 30-10 game over red rover. At 18-10, we were still in the game, we needed to roll our sleeves up, kick to the corners, play set for set footy, wear them down and eventually the tide would have turned our way again. We lacked patience, composure, experience and leadership. I don't care what anyone says, Parra are rubblish, they didn't win it, we gifted them the win.