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You basically reiterated what I'm saying in a nicer way lolWhether or not she is interested in the first friend or not is irrelevant - its still grass cutting... How cut would your friend feel... I am not saying don't ever pursue it... you just give it a bit of time - surely if your friend knows she isn't interested he will get over her alot quicker then a few months but in saying that, I would wait til all feelings had subsided then told my friend i was interested in the person and then pursue it... I wouldn't pursue it knowing my friend had feelings for the person and be all like tough **** he ain't interested in you.. because human nature - it still cuts a person!
I am not saying women don't do it - hell i have my best friend choose a guy over me this year (not that i was interestd in him... hell no) but the guy wouldn't date her, treated her like **** etc etc etc and now she spends all her time with him and we no longer talk... Women can be just as bad...
I'd definitely be cautious about it considering it's a close freind, but there's so much you can actually do to make sure your friend isn't cut about it. At the end of the day I think they're going to be cut either way, whether you wait a day or 6 months.
At the end of the day though, I wouldn't be interested in someone I know my friend is interested in anyway.