Grass Cutting 101

[Your Mum]

What are the rules and what is considered cutting grass??

Is any sort of grass cutting acceptable? eg gf dumped them, or it was never an actual relationship

discuss

 

[Hansta]

damn i thought it was about cutting grass, but then i saw it was created by jorgie so go figures

 

[purpleskittles]

Going after someone you know your friend is interested in i assume?

 

[Ghost of Dime]

bird dogging

 

[Your Mum]

Going after someone you know your friend is interested in i assume?

Well thats what its meant to be. But apparently it also applies to hooking up with someone your friends already hooked up with ONCE. Am i the only one who disagrees with this?

 

[purpleskittles]

I don't agree with it either... if it was merely a hook up however I wouldn't take my friends sloppy seconds...

 

[Rani]

It depends on how close the friendship is imo. If it's a close friend, then personally I could never do it. If the friendship isn't that close and there is not current relationship happening, then I would go for it!!

 

[purpleskittles]

LOL, rachel just used the words "Sloppy seconds"

ahahahhaha

What - that's what it is... I don't do boys my friends have prior to me!

 

[Your Mum]

I don't agree with it either... if it was merely a hook up however I wouldn't take my friends sloppy seconds...

eww, i dont do sloppy seconds either. It wasnt even a hook up with them, just a kiss. Plus shes seeing someone anyway so i dont see the big deal.

Anyway this is general 101 as i have nfi about the rules as ive never really had gf's

 

[Hansta]

if its just a pash then i dont think you have much to worry about, esp since she is taken anyways

 

[purpleskittles]

Go for it then, if it's a one off kiss and she is with someone there aren't feeling therefor its not grasscutting!

 

[Toro]

LOL! harsh!

I always thought it took more than just a one-off kiss for someone to be deemed "sloppy seconds"

 

[Your Mum]

other situations ive tried talking to a guy my gf was keen on but then he tells me he's keen on me instead. I told him that i dont cut grass then told me gf's we had to leave cause he's a ****. He was hot but theres no way id ever cut this kinda grass.

 

[purpleskittles]

LOL! harsh!

I always thought it took more than just a one-off kiss for someone to be deemed "sloppy seconds"

It does... but I take the term hooking up as shagging someone.. not just a kiss... If it's a kiss it's not sloppy seconds.. although one friend of mine did offer me the chance to kiss some guy she had just spent an 1hr kissing - I declinded. erghh

 

[Your Mum]

is there a rule on friends ex bf's?? Or how about Ex bf's best friends?

im not planning on cutting any grass. I just would like to know the rules for future reference.

 

[steve1700]

If your friends mate is being a b**** and not chatting up chick so instead you pick her up that is grass cutting

 

[purpleskittles]

is there a rule on friends ex bf's?? Or how about Ex bf's best friends?

im not planning on cutting any grass. I just would like to know the rules for future reference.

wouldn't call them grass cutting situations but extremely complicated in themselves...

 

[Toro]

It does... but I take the term hooking up as shagging someone.. not just a kiss... If it's a kiss it's not sloppy seconds.. although one friend of mine did offer me the chance to kiss some guy she had just spent an 1hr kissing - I declinded. erghh

hahaha agreed!

I'd have to check how drunk I was before I kissed a chick who'd just been playing tonsil-hockey with 1 of my mates.

Different story if she'd just kissed a girl. No hesitation there, whatsoever!

 

[Your Mum]

It does... but I take the term hooking up as shagging someone.. not just a kiss... If it's a kiss it's not sloppy seconds.. although one friend of mine did offer me the chance to kiss some guy she had just spent an 1hr kissing - I declinded. erghh

Please tell me your gf wasnt being serious?!!

 

[purpleskittles]

Please tell me your gf wasnt being serious?!!

No she was! she bugged me for like 15 minutes at a Bar. I met another HOTTER guy later on and the guy whom she tried to hook me in with was sitting not far from us staring with a filthy look the whole time.