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that brings back some memories.It involves a scorned ex girlfriend...
that brings back some memories.It involves a scorned ex girlfriend...
One of the few decents posts in here.Just because he is earning big dollars doesn't mean he shouldn't have any dramas in life. Us muppets would be the last thing on his mind. His kids are the most important thing in his life. Breaking up with his girl will have a huge effect on him spending time with his kids, so if he goes off the rails and does some stupid **** for the first time in his life, so be it. Support him and hope he gets the help he needs to help him out of the mental hole he is in right now, instead of posting stupid **** and saying how you are ropable with him. He has had a lot on his young shoulders through his life, being a Dad quite young and moving to a big city 2000km's from your family, then all of a sudden you are a superstar. None of us know the pressure he is under and what his thoughts are right now, so relax with the stupid comments about how he has let you down.
Yes and then on the 9 news bulletin as i predicted weidler had contacted barbas ex trying to get dirt but thankfully she txt him back saying me and ben are going through a tough personal time in our lives and would like privacy to deal with it - something along those lines ,then he posted pics from barbas instagram when hes been outHe was disgraceful at the press conference... acting all concenred for her, and pretty much trying to get Todd to admit he'd beaten her.
We all have problems and some of us are in a lot worse position then Benny, a lot worse, my point was we are behind him and his issues and I'm sure he has a few but, we are all accountable for our own decisions and actions including Ben. This club has spent a lot of time and resources to bring us back to where we belong at the top and Benny has a responsibility to himself, his family, the club, players and supporters, it is a big burden to carry but nevertheless one he has accepted to wear by signing a big contract. None of us are heartless here, we bleed for the players and hate to see them go through things like this as they become part of the wider family. But truth be told, we are pissed off for him and for everyone affected by his actions, what about the other players and coaching staff who have sacrificed all off season, they would be upset for him but also disappointed, its natural to be upset, we are all a little selfish and want the best for everyone.Just because he is earning big dollars doesn't mean he shouldn't have any dramas in life. Us muppets would be the last thing on his mind. His kids are the most important thing in his life. Breaking up with his girl will have a huge effect on him spending time with his kids, so if he goes off the rails and does some stupid **** for the first time in his life, so be it. Support him and hope he gets the help he needs to help him out of the mental hole he is in right now, instead of posting stupid **** and saying how you are ropable with him. He has had a lot on his young shoulders through his life, being a Dad quite young and moving to a big city 2000km's from your family, then all of a sudden you are a superstar. None of us know the pressure he is under and what his thoughts are right now, so relax with the stupid comments about how he has let you down.
Trust me, if it was massive the club wouldn't be sugar coating it, it is what it is, personal issues that are big enough to take him away from football and for our club who pride themselves on professionalism it's enough to draw a line.I was thinking it must be some thing massive, but who knows hey
I'm sure the club have advised him to do this.Now this is one reason I dislike social media... he'll have all his accounts trawled by the media now, picking up any small indiscretion and making a story out of it.
If I were him, I'd remove my online prescence, or at least make it private.
I think we should do the same, leave it alone!!!Now this is one reason I dislike social media... he'll have all his accounts trawled by the media now, picking up any small indiscretion and making a story out of it.
If I were him, I'd remove my online prescence, or at least make it private.
Now this is one reason I dislike social media... he'll have all his accounts trawled by the media now, picking up any small indiscretion and making a story out of it.
If I were him, I'd remove my online prescence, or at least make it private.