What has this got to do with you being a "middle aged female"?
You're being a tit, it doesn't matter if you're male or female. Couldn't give a shit.
A tit is a tit and I'll call a tit out for being a tit. Doesn't matter if it's a he, she, they, them, it whatever.
You're the ONLY person making this out to be about the sex of a person.
But we all know what you're trying to do with this ...
We've seen it all before and it'll work to some degree at least ...
Trying to play the victim and now will run to the mods to get people banned, and ensure no one leaves a smiley emojii on your posts.
Grow up FFS.