Blue_boost
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I went to a wedding recently.. it was a second marriage and they tried to fool the guests with a bullshit function. No sit down tables, basically a big table with cheese and shit on it, an open bar but he had a tab limit on it.
I don't drink much and I didn't have a place to sit. So I adjusted my present to cover what his costs would have been. In all fairness Noone ever counted how many guests their were so he would have undervalued it too. He would have seen my gift and thought "bastard" but he would also know I wasn t stupid to pay when he did it on the cheap. Plus it was his second wedding (his first lasted 3-4 yrs), I didn't have the benefit of my system to claw back my first gift ..
My gift for his first wedding was very generous but also based on his commitment till death do them part.
I don't drink much and I didn't have a place to sit. So I adjusted my present to cover what his costs would have been. In all fairness Noone ever counted how many guests their were so he would have undervalued it too. He would have seen my gift and thought "bastard" but he would also know I wasn t stupid to pay when he did it on the cheap. Plus it was his second wedding (his first lasted 3-4 yrs), I didn't have the benefit of my system to claw back my first gift ..
My gift for his first wedding was very generous but also based on his commitment till death do them part.