I think what you guys don't realise is, you're all good people, you just have differing views. I have differing views with a lot of people, does that mean I go off at them, argue, make threats etc.? No. And I'm not talking on the net. I value their opinions just as much as I value my own. We can all learn from each other if we just took a minute to sit back and think about what they're saying, rather than just jumping on our little high horses, or should I say high chairs.
I dunno man, it all comes down to maturity in the end. In time you'll realise your own mistakes as well as other people's, take those instances, and leave them behind.
If you could just agree to disagree, or not quote/reply to each other at all, there would be no problems in the first place. Nobody is right and wrong here, it's all 50/50. What I would like to see here is just people getting along. It's ridiculous the amount of crap that goes on, and trust me, you just look like fools to everyone else. The more you guys go for "ownage", the more everyone else loses respect for you.
I don't mean to get in the middle here, but I've had a few experiences in life that have taught me a few things. Even the biggest of enemies, can become the best of friends. I propose you guys log off for a few days, let things cool off, then come back here, or on msn, and have a constructive discussion. Solve everything.