That's fucked bro. I mean not that she broke up with him, but that she keeps jumping from guy to guy. Does she not know the effect this has on her (and your) children? I mean come on... she's breaking guys hearts and in the process moving on with someone else. She's putting her own wants (NOT needs) ahead of those who depend on her. I really feel for your children bro... this is so not fair on them.
How did you end up finding this stuff out?
I think that's just her thing she can't be alone so when she is tired of one she goes on to the next one I guess. She has 2 kids to me, another 2 to her recently ex husband too. So their are 4 kids involved. She has always been a self centered person and wants for herself above the partner.
I will say though, apart from jumping from relationship to relationship, solely as a mother she is really great with the kids in general. I will never fault her on that. They are well dressed, well fed and well looked after. When it comes to her and me though it's a different story. Same with the kids and me, she doesn't really care about me when it comes to our kids. She doesn't want to give me any acknowledgement towards those kids. Only acknowledgement is when it comes to child support.
I have tried with her to be friends, for the sake of the kids. To make it easier on us to have some sort of civil relationship but she just doesn't want to try even though she says she wants to. Things may change now that she isn't with her ex husband.
I found out about her affair on me through Facebook. Long story short I seen private messages between the 2 of them on there, and let's just say it didn't need to be spelled out that they were rooting behind my back.
Now, when it comes to me finding out that she had an affair on the next guy and left him was through a couple of mutual friends and also a couple of her relations. So I had a few people confirm that it had happened.
Maybe I should go crack on to my ex and cut the new guys grass and we can go full circle hahaha.