How important is honesty and trust to you guys in a relationship?
FFS, I've been in on-off-on-off relationship for three years with a girl who has been dishonest the whole ****ing way. It cuts deep because I knew she was a lying *****, yet I lied to myself that she was being truthful so I could be with her.
Recently, I told her to **** off and never talk to me again, but I found out this girl is wack. She lived an almost completely different life to what she lead me onto believe. No honesty, no integrity, nothing. She flirts with every guy she meets, yet thinks its just socialising. Now I feel really stupid and upset because I knew it all along, i just didn't want to accept it..
Mind you, after we broke up 2 years ago, she was with someone else for a year, and I waited until they broke up till I asked her out again. The whole time she was with this other bloke, she was telling me she loves me?
Not even a month ago, she was telling me she loved me and knew we should be together and **** like that. Then she tells me the next day she doesn't love me and stuff like that..Amazing, absolutely amazing...
Now If that isn't a big case of dishonesty and deception then **** I don't know what is. But I allowed myself to be taken in..*sigh*...thanks for listening..
FFS, I've been in on-off-on-off relationship for three years with a girl who has been dishonest the whole ****ing way. It cuts deep because I knew she was a lying *****, yet I lied to myself that she was being truthful so I could be with her.
Recently, I told her to **** off and never talk to me again, but I found out this girl is wack. She lived an almost completely different life to what she lead me onto believe. No honesty, no integrity, nothing. She flirts with every guy she meets, yet thinks its just socialising. Now I feel really stupid and upset because I knew it all along, i just didn't want to accept it..
Mind you, after we broke up 2 years ago, she was with someone else for a year, and I waited until they broke up till I asked her out again. The whole time she was with this other bloke, she was telling me she loves me?
Not even a month ago, she was telling me she loved me and knew we should be together and **** like that. Then she tells me the next day she doesn't love me and stuff like that..Amazing, absolutely amazing...
Now If that isn't a big case of dishonesty and deception then **** I don't know what is. But I allowed myself to be taken in..*sigh*...thanks for listening..