Blue_boost
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I had a party at my house many many years ago. I invited about 100-150 people or so, people from uni, people from a casual job I worked at, people from high school. Most people were aged 18-22yrs old, about an even split of female to male.. it was fun and after the party ended a few of us guys took off for king's Cross. (Back in the days when it was the ace to be)
In the car we talked about the party and my mate Damo, started talking about a girl I worked with. He said she "was in the bag". I let him talk as I knew her well. He said she was very suggestive to go find a quiet place and jump him. To me she didn't seem like the girl to be so forward but she was very social and fun to be around. He went on and in about it.. Damo usually doesn't embellish too much and I trusted him. Knew him for a good 10 years at least.
We went out that night and had a good night in king's Cross
The next night I gave Jas a call, this was the girl damo spoke about .. I did see them at the party having a good chat and talk.
Then I put it to her , my mate Damo told me last night that you were in the bag, all over him.. she cracked up, "I was nowhere near the bag" he had no chance.. I told her "I dunno, Damo is no fibber"... She maintained that she wasn't in the bag.. I gave her some heat about this for a few years after.. that she was an easy catch "apparently"
So who is bullshitting?
Damo who said she was in the bag?
Or Jas who says she was nowhere near the bag, he had no chance.
Both were single at the time, I know men overstate their achievements with women and women generally don't admit to getting with guys, so I'm a bit on the fence.. I trust both these people and they wouldnt lie..
So I'm thinking do men embellish a situation way more than a women is willing to ever tell? I know I've really had to press female friends to admit stuff they have done with guys, they rarely tell.. whereas males will always say way more than what actually happened?
Thoughts?
In the car we talked about the party and my mate Damo, started talking about a girl I worked with. He said she "was in the bag". I let him talk as I knew her well. He said she was very suggestive to go find a quiet place and jump him. To me she didn't seem like the girl to be so forward but she was very social and fun to be around. He went on and in about it.. Damo usually doesn't embellish too much and I trusted him. Knew him for a good 10 years at least.
We went out that night and had a good night in king's Cross
The next night I gave Jas a call, this was the girl damo spoke about .. I did see them at the party having a good chat and talk.
Then I put it to her , my mate Damo told me last night that you were in the bag, all over him.. she cracked up, "I was nowhere near the bag" he had no chance.. I told her "I dunno, Damo is no fibber"... She maintained that she wasn't in the bag.. I gave her some heat about this for a few years after.. that she was an easy catch "apparently"
So who is bullshitting?
Damo who said she was in the bag?
Or Jas who says she was nowhere near the bag, he had no chance.
Both were single at the time, I know men overstate their achievements with women and women generally don't admit to getting with guys, so I'm a bit on the fence.. I trust both these people and they wouldnt lie..
So I'm thinking do men embellish a situation way more than a women is willing to ever tell? I know I've really had to press female friends to admit stuff they have done with guys, they rarely tell.. whereas males will always say way more than what actually happened?
Thoughts?
