I haven't mentioned it on here. But his battle ended on the 27th of December. His funeral was on Wednesday. It's been a bit of a chaotic week. The main positive things are that he wasn't really in pain or suffering for a long period. I mean 6-7 weeks ago he did an upgrade on his car. So it was very unexpected. He only had about three weeks of knowing it was terminal. Since he passed I've tried to be supportive but not in the faces of his parents and brother. Just let them know I'm happy to be there if they need an ear.
Anyway Sir Col. I really hope there is a road to recovery for you. Although it sounds like that isn't the case from your post. And if not I hope that all your regrets are minor and the happy memories you've got are plentiful. I don't know how you can ease things for your family now. But maybe you could write some letters to recall some of the best times you've shared with them and thank them for the joys you've shared. I know that might be a tough task. But I think it's something they might appreciate.
Sorry Alan, I did not know he had passed.
Mate, I am not into letters and such - what we are into is time together - far more precious for me and I think for them, although your comments are well founded and meaningful to many people.
You are showing you are a good man by "just being there" and letting them know you are available - I am certain you would be surprised how much that means to them.
I REFUSE TO QUIT - that is what matters, once I admit it is over then it is over.
Realistically I am already well past my use by date, but still making the best of it as I can, but if anyone thinks I am simply going to fold my arms over my chest and wait to die - FORGET IT!
All the best to you mate and thanks for being here.
I am still planning my second trip to Darwin to spend more time with my youngest daughter and they can take me out on the boat.
Will it happen? Who knows but I ain't one for giving up on anything.
Learned a few tricks about being a stubborn old C**T from my mate Assassin. lol
I should set a goal to still be here to put shit on the Doggies fans when they meet with the Eels later in the year. Hehe. Joking mate, just some friendly banter and taking the piss out of each other will do.
BTW, I think you guys could be a force this year, not as good as the Eels of course but still be a force.
Keep smiling bro.