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BLAZE said:
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Thing is I've got an inheritance recently. In about 6 months I'll be living a long held dream of driving round Australia that's been in my to do list for about 25 years. So I see some great times ahead. Just have this shitty moral dilemma right now
 
Alan79 said:
Thing is I've got an inheritance recently. In about 6 months I'll be living a long held dream of driving round Australia that's been in my to do list for about 25 years. So I see some great times ahead. Just have this shitty moral dilemma right now
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no probs dude sounds exciting, going to do some fishing? you seem like a really smart chap with a lvl head but always remember that talking all the time about a situation can feed it maybe pray for it to be good and send some love into the situation. be like that child with the mesmiration of life in his eyes wishing on a birthday cake
 
We said goodbye to our girl Audrey this afternoon. It was the hardest thing iv done in my life and im empty. There will never be another like you.
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Edgelord said:
We said goodbye to our girl Audrey this afternoon. It was the hardest thing iv done in my life and im empty. There will never be another like you.View attachment 156084
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its tough saying good bye to a loved dog,
Thoughts are with you mate,

Get another dog soon as possible.
You never can replace a pet, but the house will feel soleless without another dog.
 
Edgelord said:
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Definitely one of the hardest things to do in life. They are not here long enough, but in the time they are here they love enough for numerous lifetimes. May your little girl rest in peace. Hope you are ok.
 
Mr 95% said:
Definitely one of the hardest things to do in life. They are not here long enough, but in the time they are here they love enough for numerous lifetimes. May your little girl rest in peace. Hope you are ok.
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Im a wreck atm. She was just her usual self last friday and by today she couldnt even stand.
 
Edgelord said:
Im a wreck atm. She was just her usual self last friday and by today she couldnt even stand.
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Yeah, i know exactly how you feel, had a very similar experience. All I can say is, your love for her will never fade, but the shock and sadness will ease over time,
 
Edgelord said:
Im a wreck atm. She was just her usual self last friday and by today she couldnt even stand.
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Mate my heart goes out to you.

2 years in December I had to put down our (near) 14 yr old Labador in similar circumstances. It broke me, and she was my best mate and first ever dog with my wife.

Same thing as Audrey, one day she was fine. Next day she was having difficulty standing on front legs. Day after that she was unable to stand at all, we raced her to the vet and there was nothing they could do. They suspect she had a stroke and lost use of her legs :(

We spent 6 months with just 1 dog as he mourned her loss, before we adopted again.

So I feel for you. RIP Audrey, she looks like a real sweetheart. Thoughts are with you during this tragic time.
 
SARGE said:
Stay strong brother.

I'm sure it will be a beautiful send off for dad.
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Mate we found the most amazing celebrant, and he was absolutely superb.

Beautiful service that was livestreamed from the venue across the world. Had 30 people watching from various countries and 102 in the venue.

Couldn't fault anyone from the funeral staff to the venue, to even the wake. Everything was as Dad would have wanted.

I cracked a few times during the service, including during my speech, and during a poem I wrote him.

All in all though a fitting send off for an amazing person who will very much be missed by many.
 
senshidog said:
Mate my heart goes out to you.

2 years in December I had to put down our (near) 14 yr old Labador in similar circumstances. It broke me, and she was my best mate and first ever dog with my wife.

Same thing as Audrey, one day she was fine. Next day she was having difficulty standing on front legs. Day after that she was unable to stand at all, we raced her to the vet and there was nothing they could do. They suspect she had a stroke and lost use of her legs :(

We spent 6 months with just 1 dog as he mourned her loss, before we adopted again.

So I feel for you. RIP Audrey, she looks like a real sweetheart. Thoughts are with you during this tragic time.
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Pretty much identical situation. She was mine and my Mrs first dog together. On saturday she woke up with a limp and this morning she had no feeling in her front left leg.

Im trying so hard to remember what she was like before the injury but all I can see is how distressed and scared she was today.
 
Edgelord said:
Im a wreck atm. She was just her usual self last friday and by today she couldnt even stand.
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Dogs have a way of attaching themselves directly to our souls in the biggest way. I'm so sorry you lost your gorgeous pooch. But she looks like she was a spoilt rotten girl. The look she was giving in the picture above screams "I fucking love you". All we can do for them is give them the best life we can. Those lives aren't long enough but they fill us with love and saying goodbye really can tear us apart.
 
Alan79 said:
Dogs have a way of attaching themselves directly to our souls in the biggest way. I'm so sorry you lost your gorgeous pooch. But she looks like she was a spoilt rotten girl. The look she was giving in the picture above screams "I fucking love you". All we can do for them is give them the best life we can. Those lives aren't long enough but they fill us with love and saying goodbye really can tear us apart.
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Thank you Alan, she was a spoilt girl. I dont think she ever touched a blade of wet grass in her life haha
 
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