Situation: What would you do? (Guys and girls opinions)

[Wahesh]

So I heard that this guy in his 30s, married with 2 children, has recently separated with his wife. The reason? His wife was taking photos of herself and posting them up on Instagram.

Personally, I am against this. Nowadays, if a woman is posting pictures of herself at the gym or taking endless selfies in front of the mirror, that tells me that they love themselves too much and take what they have for granted, and are not humble or grateful. This goes both ways though, it's the same for guys, but the person in question here is the wife.

The husband let his wife be "free range" and in he let her do what she wanted. Then this is what happens. His father told him that he is at fault to letting her be free range. So who is at fault in this case for what's becoming an all too familiar thing here in Australia - divorce?

- The husband, for not putting his wife in line?
- The wife, who should know better?
- Society and Social Media in general for endorsing this type of behavior?

 

[Bob dog]

Im all for broadminded shit in 2018 but only if they both agree on each others limits, he didn't agree so its her fault.
Society is definitely getting more raunchy so it could be a social issue, people need to try to be discrete if they have urges, maybe join a sex club, what happens behind closed doors stays there, Australia loves that rule.

 

[Raysie]

Personally I wouldn't be the biggest fan of my partner posting selfies and body shots often on Instagram or any form of social media. It shows a lack of care of how it makes the other half look and is also a sign of someone seeking the attention of other men.

I'd probably leave the woman too depending on the scale of what she's showing off exactly. Shows no respect at all.

 

[Hacky McAxe]

Generally I'd say, "none of the above", but the social media option is kind of my best choice.

Our social media problems exist because of modern society. That said, the husband is definitely in the wrong here but not for the reasons you've stated. The wife posting many selfies is a sign that she's not getting enough praise and attention from her husband. And as long as she's not posting nude photos or lingerie shots then who cares? She's not doing any thing wrong.

The man should suck it up and pay more attention to his wife, then if she starts posting provocative shots he should talk to her about it. If she refuses then she's at fault and it's over. If the man is telling his wife that she's not allowed to do what she wants then the man is at fault for being over controlling.

 

[south of heaven]

No idea is she genuinely starved for attention, or just an attention seeker?
The world be turning to fast these days

 

[Boxer]

It’s the husbands fault, he should’ve gave her a backhand from her very first selfie.

 

[CroydonDog]

So I heard that this guy in his 30s, married with 2 children, has recently separated with his wife. The reason? His wife was taking photos of herself and posting them up on Instagram.

Personally, I am against this. Nowadays, if a woman is posting pictures of herself at the gym or taking endless selfies in front of the mirror, that tells me that they love themselves too much and take what they have for granted, and are not humble or grateful. This goes both ways though, it's the same for guys, but the person in question here is the wife.

The husband let his wife be "free range" and in he let her do what she wanted. Then this is what happens. His father told him that he is at fault to letting her be free range. So who is at fault in this case for what's becoming an all too familiar thing here in Australia - divorce?

- The husband, for not putting his wife in line?
- The wife, who should know better?
- Society and Social Media in general for endorsing this type of behavior?

"letting her be free range" - Where the fuck are these backward fucks from? It would be good to know to ensure that my daughter stays the fuck well away from these type of people.

As much as I despise narcissism and can't stand Instagram, if someone has seriously broken up a family because of some selfies, it says so much more about this husband's insecurities. Assuming this scenario is even real (I shudder that it is), in the long run, she is possibly being done a favour in that this guy is clearly a controlling douche.

[If this is indeed a troll thread - well played ].

 

[DoggiesBoy]

Is this serious? If so, sounds like this women has really dodged a bullet here. The guy needs to wake up and get out of the 20's.

 

[Hacky McAxe]

"letting her be free range" - Where the fuck are these backward fucks from? It would be good to know to ensure that my daughter stays the fuck well away from these type of people.

As much as I despise narcissism and can't stand Instagram, if someone has seriously broken up a family because of some selfies, it says so much more about this husband's insecurities. Assuming this scenario is even real (I shudder that it is), in the long run, she is possibly being done a favour in that this guy is clearly a controlling douche.

[If this is indeed a troll thread - well played ].

Is this serious? If so, sounds like this women has really dodged a bullet here. The guy needs to wake up and get out of the 20's.

When I read it the first thing that popped in my head was, "Realist is getting a divorce?"

 

[Wahesh]

Is this serious? If so, sounds like this women has really dodged a bullet here. The guy needs to wake up and get out of the 20's.

This is serious. I'm not talking a man and his wife or a girlfriend, I'm talking about a married MOTHER who's posting this shit up. That in itself says the woman has not matured considering she's still doing this stuff. That's what you'd expect from teenagers/20s ladies, not married mothers.

 

[Wahesh]

"letting her be free range" - Where the fuck are these backward fucks from? It would be good to know to ensure that my daughter stays the fuck well away from these type of people.

As much as I despise narcissism and can't stand Instagram, if someone has seriously broken up a family because of some selfies, it says so much more about this husband's insecurities. Assuming this scenario is even real (I shudder that it is), in the long run, she is possibly being done a favour in that this guy is clearly a controlling douche.

[If this is indeed a troll thread - well played ].

Not a troll said. The lady moved back in with her mother (who is apparently loaded) and the guy sent a photo to one of his friends of his empty house. The bitch took everything.

 

[Hacky McAxe]

This is serious. I'm not talking a man and his wife or a girlfriend, I'm talking about a married MOTHER who's posting this shit up. That in itself says the woman has not matured considering she's still doing this stuff. That's what you'd expect from teenagers/20s ladies, not married mothers.

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

Is she posting photos of her arse? Cleavage?

 

[south of heaven]

Not a troll said. The lady moved back in with her mother (who is apparently loaded) and the guy sent a photo to one of his friends of his empty house. The bitch took everything.

Well fuck if the mothers loaded he should of been sending her dick picks

 

[yearofthedog]

Who cares what she’s posting. Was she cheating ? If you guys or girls have trust issues that’s your problem. You don’t own them and they don’t own you

 

[DoggiesBoy]

This is serious. I'm not talking a man and his wife or a girlfriend, I'm talking about a married MOTHER who's posting this shit up. That in itself says the woman has not matured considering she's still doing this stuff. That's what you'd expect from teenagers/20s ladies, not married mothers.

Just because you are married and have kids doesn't mean life is over and you are now bound to the house never to seen in public again.

 

[CroydonDog]

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

Is she posting photos of her arse? Cleavage?

Shouldn't matter really. Instagram isn't porn. The language in the OP says a lot really. A wife, especially one who has now borne children, should be under control and do what they are told.

In a way, I can't blame the husband too much, his shit attitudes have been indoctrinated into him from an early age from his own father.

 

[Hacky McAxe]

Shouldn't matter really. Instagram isn't porn. The language in the OP says a lot really. A wife, especially one who has now borne children, should be under control and do what they are told.

In a way, I can't blame the husband too much, his shit attitudes have been indoctrinated into him from an early age from his own father.

If she's posting pictures of her arse and cleavage with taglines of "Who wants some?" then it could be a problem. If she's posting gym selfies saying, "Look how fit I am?" then I don't see a problem.

 

[Wahesh]

What kind of stuff are we talking about?

Is she posting photos of her arse? Cleavage?

I dare say so. I heard gym shots were there too.

Basically, a mother objectifying herself shows that there's something not right with her mentally.

 

[Wahesh]

Who cares what she’s posting. Was she cheating ? If you guys or girls have trust issues that’s your problem. You don’t own them and they don’t own you

It's not about trust, it's about self respect and someone hungry for attention.

 

[Wahesh]

If she's posting pictures of her arse and cleavage with taglines of "Who wants some?" then it could be a problem. If she's posting gym selfies saying, "Look how fit I am?" then I don't see a problem.

Well the thing is everyone posts pictures of their arse at the gym wearing tight gym pants. It's a hybrid of both things you mentioned.