Opinion Relationship problems

[Wolfmother]

The Brazilian accent is cute!
I need to stop fucking around with foreigner women though but its all I can attract.

I did attract 3 young Australian women.
They got kicked out from the casino before the sun went down and said they were going to the PBH to wait for me to finish work.

I shook my head at them and told them theres no way they've got the pump to wait for me! Lol

Lol you mustnt be too bad, youve got a lot of interest from girls! I know this sounds really weird but I believe in fate and destiny and it'll hap0en if it's meant to.

 

[Wolfmother]

I like most accents really. But her English was extremely limited. I gave it about 2 weeks and got very fed up with the language barrier. Decided to end it early on rather than prolong things. Still message her on Facebook occasionally. And her English is not much better three years later.

Hahaha so true I've had a Japanese friend for years and same thing , her English is as bad as the day I met her in 2010 when our kids were in kindergarten but she's so hilarious when she's trying to get her point across and I'm like huh.. she communicates almost like Jim Carey .
She was trying to tell me her friends daughters name but I obviously was having problems saying it .. Then she pulls out Her i-phone and goes "like iPhone but I Chi.." lol

 

[CroydonDog]

Been there with a former co-worker from Japan. It makes it difficult to see a future if you can't really talk simply. The realisation hit when I tried to explain the word obstacle that it was going to drive me crazy having 500 plus conversations trying to explain things without the basic tools.

I've found the cultural barrier harder than the language one, although one does fee into the other.

 

[Wahesh]

The thing is they're are both crazy hot my ex is hot cause she's in the gym and the other girl is just naturally fuckin beautiful. Difference with the two aswell is my ex posts ass pics on instagram and shit like that for everyone to see (knows I hate it) but says it's because it makes her feel more confident (trust me I don't get it ether)
The other doesn't post anything like that at all

The other girl is fully supportive of me having kids and wanted to meet them she also wants her own kids some day aswell

My heart says the other girl but for some reason I can't stand to see my ex with anyone else and I don't know whether it's because of the kids or because I actually love her so fuckin much lol where the other girl I don't care if she talks to other guys but that's more te fact I trust her completely

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https://www.thekennel.net.au/forum/...-would-you-do-guys-and-girls-opinions.108344/

 

[UmoGus]

Sack the ex bro

 

[CroydonDog]

I'm going to guess this woman was your first "true love" so to speak. That has a strong pull. I dated my uni girlfriend for about 2.5 years and thought she would be the one. Of course that was silly thinking.

The other pull is you have kids with her. I couldn't comprehend having them as young as you have and so its difficult for me to work how that would fare in the mix.

Overall, you have to accept the old relationship is over. Going back rarely works from my observations as a 41 year old on his 2nd marriage. You will make better parents to your kids apart then together.

As for this new bird, be very careful o the rebound. After my divorce i was single for a while and then ended up dating a woman who was exotic, fun, hot, and shagged like no tomorrow. But she was also nuts and manipulative and eventually made me miserable. Also, being "hot as fuck" is, quite frankly, not a solid reason for getting into a relationship. I mean this in the nicest possible way - but it does sound like you have some growing up to do. You are not the same person at 27 as you were at 20 or whenever you met your ex and you will change again in another 10 years or so.

Good luck.

 

[Wahesh]

Also, being "hot as fuck" is, quite frankly, not a solid reason for getting into a relationship.

Agreed. She might be hot as fuck, but she's also immature as fuck... posting inappropriate photos on Instagram for the sake of getting likes? No thanks.

Also, it's common for people to miss their ex and want to get back with them... until they do and them remember why they broke up in the first place. Don't go back bro, move on.

She'll always be in your life as she is the mother of your children, but that's all she'll ever be. Make peace with her and remain friends with her for the sake of your kids.

 

[yearofthedog]

It's time for you to move on.

She cheated on you & lied about it.

She posts photos of herself, knowing it upsets you.

You deserve happiness, you won't get it with your ex.

In the back of you mind, if you are with her you will always think, is she cheating again.

And she will cheat again.

That is what I think everytime I'm with her when her phone goes off I always get the shitter of who the fuck is that and it's hard because that's not the guy I am.
She said she kept it a secrecy for so long because she thought I was cheating on her (I have no reason to lie to you all and I wasn't) and that she was scared to lose me

It's weird but I start to feel bad for her

 

[south of heaven]

This is why men should be able to have a wife and a whore ,you need the loving nurturing mother who you can cudddle up to and watch a movie and have nice dinners and help raise the kids.
Then the whore to fulfill the deviate fantasies lets face it what you do to the whore you dont want her to be kissing your kids goodbye at the school gate.

 

[Kaz]

She said she kept it a secrecy for so long because she thought I was cheating on her (I have no reason to lie to you all and I wasn't) and that she was scared to lose me

It's weird but I start to feel bad for her

She is doing the poor woe is me.

eg: I thought you were cheating etc so I cheated blah blah blah.

She is manipulating you.

 

[Mr Invisible]

No shes from Brazil.

So in between the yellow and the white!

Nice young lady but I don't want to rely on google translate.

I shouldn't have to learn Portuguese in an English speaking country.

Just learn the original lyrics to Despacito!

 

[CrittaMagic69]

but the Japanese accent is pretty awesome though..

Sahhh kawaii!

 

[Wahesh]

Sahhh kawaii!

I'm continuously getting you and @Samiken mixed up due to your avatars

 

[Wahesh]

This is why men should be able to have a wife and a whore ,you need the loving nurturing mother who you can cudddle up to and watch a movie and have nice dinners and help raise the kids.
Then the whore to fulfill the deviate fantasies lets face it what you do to the whore you dont want her to be kissing your kids goodbye at the school gate.

I don't think there's ever been a funnier Karmichael on the kennel than you my man

 

[Mr Invisible]

I'm continuously getting you and @Samiken mixed up due to your avatars

Same LOL!

 

[UmoGus]

I'm continuously getting you and @Samiken mixed up due to your avatars

Maybe we are the same?

 

[CrittaMagic69]

I'm continuously getting you and @Samiken mixed up due to your avatars

@Samiken has the Egyptian King, I have Big Cock Divock.

 

[Mr Invisible]

@Samiken and @Nabsolutely Fabulous
@utility half and @Spoonman84 always gets me as well.

 

[NickT]

Bro, cut her loose.
Forget her.
Let her date whoever she wants.
Be nice when you deal with her and the kids, even when she decides to be unreasonable and hurtful.
Stick to your principles with the kids and DON’T EVER compromise even if your standards differ with their mothers.

You will win. You will win. You will win.
Father Time will see to it.