I didn't realise so many of us know victim card carrying people.
There's just a lot of those people. If anyone doesn't know one, it's probably because they're that person.
My Auntie on my dad's side and my female cousin's from that family branch have platinum level victim cards. I don't speak to any of them since they tried to get my dad legally blocked from seeing nan when they decided she was close enough to death that they needed to get her to only look after them in her will.
My Auntie also split with uncle for 1.5 years and had a baby with another guy that she gave up for adoption. When that baby grew up she decided she wanted to meet that side of the family but tested the eaters by contacting my dad and my oldest sister to make sure it wouldn't destroy the family. Auntie and female cousins carried on like fuckwits when they found out their half sister had spoken with dad and my sister first. Despicable people. I do respect my male cousin as he's actually a straightforward honest person. The only one in that branch of the family I have any time for.
I also work with a Karen (by name and nature) that can blame others for any fuck up she does, and on top of that, she often goes crying to one of a few of the managers where I work that she's not being treated right and goes home halfway through a shift. Funny thing is I'd prefer to have double the workload and not have her there.