Deathspell
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- Oct 19, 2017
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I'd like to share something with the kennel.
I remember the 1st time I met my dear friend the day he arrived from Dapto to play for St.George.My parents owned a few houses at Kogarah which the club leased to board their out of town young players. I got to know most but struck a friendship with this Dapto lad,who aspired to become a physical education teacher.
Years passed and I watched him get married to Karen,have a son and a daughter,but nothing sparked him more then when the twins were born.I could feel his pride,when he brought the small boys over on their visits to Sydney.
He signed with Easts and the Roasters curse possessed him.He started distancing himself from his family and friends and spent his off seasons in England.We kept in touch but our friendship grew distant.
Divorce followed and finally he retired from the game and returned to Shoalhaven.
Seventeen years passed before I saw my friend again,when he visited my house with the now grown up twins who both played at Saints.We made a pledge to see each other every few months which we've kept up to this day.Whilst visiting this month,one of the boys called in to pick up his dad,they were going out celebrating their 10th Australian selection anniversary.
So I asked him, "what's up with the Dogs,everyone looks uninterested,is it Pay?"
"No" he quickly answered "We work hard,we try,but when we need it most our self belief fails us".
"Does it matter?" he continued "Everyone expects us to fail".
He turned around,called his dad and they left.Alone I started thinking,I recognize that look.Same look I've seen in some of my clients,when they encounter trouble.Alone and abandoned by their family and friends.
I give credit and salute the administrators of this site,because some players do read some of the threads.So if you want the players to give you their all,especially those who are on minimum wage or 1/4 of what our elite players earn,get behind them.We need them and those are the one's that need you the most!
Try to engage in supportive,valuable club discussions and try to refrain from destructive player criticism for just 1 week,you'll be amazed what it can achieve.
I remember the 1st time I met my dear friend the day he arrived from Dapto to play for St.George.My parents owned a few houses at Kogarah which the club leased to board their out of town young players. I got to know most but struck a friendship with this Dapto lad,who aspired to become a physical education teacher.
Years passed and I watched him get married to Karen,have a son and a daughter,but nothing sparked him more then when the twins were born.I could feel his pride,when he brought the small boys over on their visits to Sydney.
He signed with Easts and the Roasters curse possessed him.He started distancing himself from his family and friends and spent his off seasons in England.We kept in touch but our friendship grew distant.
Divorce followed and finally he retired from the game and returned to Shoalhaven.
Seventeen years passed before I saw my friend again,when he visited my house with the now grown up twins who both played at Saints.We made a pledge to see each other every few months which we've kept up to this day.Whilst visiting this month,one of the boys called in to pick up his dad,they were going out celebrating their 10th Australian selection anniversary.
So I asked him, "what's up with the Dogs,everyone looks uninterested,is it Pay?"
"No" he quickly answered "We work hard,we try,but when we need it most our self belief fails us".
"Does it matter?" he continued "Everyone expects us to fail".
He turned around,called his dad and they left.Alone I started thinking,I recognize that look.Same look I've seen in some of my clients,when they encounter trouble.Alone and abandoned by their family and friends.
I give credit and salute the administrators of this site,because some players do read some of the threads.So if you want the players to give you their all,especially those who are on minimum wage or 1/4 of what our elite players earn,get behind them.We need them and those are the one's that need you the most!
Try to engage in supportive,valuable club discussions and try to refrain from destructive player criticism for just 1 week,you'll be amazed what it can achieve.