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Nasheed here,
many of u know I'm a pimp with the bitches and often give advice to guys here how to lack ho's, so I thought I'd open up a conversation with some thoughts on the dating game, pumping game etc.
they don't call me love muscle for nothing.
A thought I had today is what race has it easier?
Guys or girls?
If you’ve read as much text convos as I have over the years...
Or worked with the area boys and local sluts,
It'd be easy to be convinced that girls have it easier.
Think abouts it yo, it’s the guys that alway seem to be the ones that are chasing.
And it's the bitches that are shutting down the guys!!!
I can't remember the last time a girl said "man I've gotten rejected so many times 2nite"
It's the guys that have to get up the courage to approach the chicks.
Most girls don't even know something like approach anxiety exists.
The list goes on.
Guys are the ones that need to take the lead and go balls deep…
They’re the ones that have to come up with the funny stuff to say...
They plan the dates…
They have to make sure everything is comfortable and taken care of...
And almost always yo they’re the ones that have to initiate everything.
And after all that, they’re the ones that have to pick up the bill and that costs Benjamin's.
I don't think most girls realize how much goes into it.
Or how much something like rejection can sting a brother.
Or how frustrating the entire process can be.
But here's the thang…
I don't actually think guys have it easier.
I think most girls actually gots it WAY harder.
Sure, if you're an attractive bitch under 30 you’ve got it really good.
But that's only a small sliver of all the girls out there in the dating market.
The truth is, a lot of girls probably aren't attractive enough to consistently get attention from the type of guys they actually want.
And getting the right attention is something a lot of girls struggle with.
Cause here's the thang yo…
If you're a girl, you just kinda have to wait around and see what comes your way.
And if you pay attention on any given night, a small handful of girls get all the quality approaches…
But the rest of them are just waiting around and palming off the sloppy drunks that have no idea what they're doing or the sleazy arabs.
And some of them don't even get any approaches at all.
That's the reality for most girls.
Imagine going out night after night and never getting approached by a single guy.
That's a situation that starts to feel real hopeless, real fast.
Same thing with online dating.
Sure, apps like tinder make it so the girl has to send the first message.
But after the first message, it's right back to business as usual.
It's then up to the guy whether he wants to move things forward.
Or if he wants to ask her out.
I can't imagine many girls are asking guys out on dates, no matter what the dating app is.
If a dude learns how to be a powerful communicator, taps into his deeper inner confidence, and learns how to step into his masculinity…
That all makes a HUGE difference in his results.
You see you guys punching above their weight class all the time.
Average looking guys with really attractive ho's.
That's not an uncommon thing.
But you don't see it the other way around nearly as much.
So like I said, it's easy street if you’re a girl that’s young and attractive…
But it can be a bitter reality if you’re a girl that lives outside those boundaries yo.
And that's most girls.
So yes, it can be a huge pain in the anuss
to be a guy.
But I would take that any day of the week.
Because being able to have that much more control over the quality of women I can get means everything to me.
And being able to lead the entire process is something I wouldn't want to give up.
Something to keep in mind next time you're frustrated with all the BS guys have to deal with.
Cause comparatively, we actually have it pretty good.
And I definitely wouldn't want to swap places. Nasheed.
many of u know I'm a pimp with the bitches and often give advice to guys here how to lack ho's, so I thought I'd open up a conversation with some thoughts on the dating game, pumping game etc.
they don't call me love muscle for nothing.
A thought I had today is what race has it easier?
Guys or girls?
If you’ve read as much text convos as I have over the years...
Or worked with the area boys and local sluts,
It'd be easy to be convinced that girls have it easier.
Think abouts it yo, it’s the guys that alway seem to be the ones that are chasing.
And it's the bitches that are shutting down the guys!!!
I can't remember the last time a girl said "man I've gotten rejected so many times 2nite"
It's the guys that have to get up the courage to approach the chicks.
Most girls don't even know something like approach anxiety exists.
The list goes on.
Guys are the ones that need to take the lead and go balls deep…
They’re the ones that have to come up with the funny stuff to say...
They plan the dates…
They have to make sure everything is comfortable and taken care of...
And almost always yo they’re the ones that have to initiate everything.
And after all that, they’re the ones that have to pick up the bill and that costs Benjamin's.
I don't think most girls realize how much goes into it.
Or how much something like rejection can sting a brother.
Or how frustrating the entire process can be.
But here's the thang…
I don't actually think guys have it easier.
I think most girls actually gots it WAY harder.
Sure, if you're an attractive bitch under 30 you’ve got it really good.
But that's only a small sliver of all the girls out there in the dating market.
The truth is, a lot of girls probably aren't attractive enough to consistently get attention from the type of guys they actually want.
And getting the right attention is something a lot of girls struggle with.
Cause here's the thang yo…
If you're a girl, you just kinda have to wait around and see what comes your way.
And if you pay attention on any given night, a small handful of girls get all the quality approaches…
But the rest of them are just waiting around and palming off the sloppy drunks that have no idea what they're doing or the sleazy arabs.
And some of them don't even get any approaches at all.
That's the reality for most girls.
Imagine going out night after night and never getting approached by a single guy.
That's a situation that starts to feel real hopeless, real fast.
Same thing with online dating.
Sure, apps like tinder make it so the girl has to send the first message.
But after the first message, it's right back to business as usual.
It's then up to the guy whether he wants to move things forward.
Or if he wants to ask her out.
I can't imagine many girls are asking guys out on dates, no matter what the dating app is.
If a dude learns how to be a powerful communicator, taps into his deeper inner confidence, and learns how to step into his masculinity…
That all makes a HUGE difference in his results.
You see you guys punching above their weight class all the time.
Average looking guys with really attractive ho's.
That's not an uncommon thing.
But you don't see it the other way around nearly as much.
So like I said, it's easy street if you’re a girl that’s young and attractive…
But it can be a bitter reality if you’re a girl that lives outside those boundaries yo.
And that's most girls.
So yes, it can be a huge pain in the anuss
to be a guy.
But I would take that any day of the week.
Because being able to have that much more control over the quality of women I can get means everything to me.
And being able to lead the entire process is something I wouldn't want to give up.
Something to keep in mind next time you're frustrated with all the BS guys have to deal with.
Cause comparatively, we actually have it pretty good.
And I definitely wouldn't want to swap places. Nasheed.