Blue_boost
Kennel Enthusiast
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I've found that some of my best friends have been following big blow ups with them. Many years ago if course but today some of my best friends.
When you meet someone, most people are fake, they pretend they want to help you but when it comes to the crunch usually they go missing in action.
When you fight with someone, things are said, sometimes inflammatory but they can be very honest, you also see what the other person is made of, if they back up or they push forward
It sets boundaries, opens up honesty, gets rid of the fake dealings... When you fight someone you see the real them, then if you both can move past the disagreement, you really forge a strong friendship.
Two brothers are most of the time best if friends, it's because they have knuckled one another many times and they know each other's strengths and weaknesses , the honesty of a fight brings them close.
If you have not had a fight with someone you don't know the real them, it's fake
Agree?
When you meet someone, most people are fake, they pretend they want to help you but when it comes to the crunch usually they go missing in action.
When you fight with someone, things are said, sometimes inflammatory but they can be very honest, you also see what the other person is made of, if they back up or they push forward
It sets boundaries, opens up honesty, gets rid of the fake dealings... When you fight someone you see the real them, then if you both can move past the disagreement, you really forge a strong friendship.
Two brothers are most of the time best if friends, it's because they have knuckled one another many times and they know each other's strengths and weaknesses , the honesty of a fight brings them close.
If you have not had a fight with someone you don't know the real them, it's fake
Agree?