agree, the other part of our game I don't understand is why we never push up in defence, always standing waiting to make a tackle.We give up field position so easily. There was a period in the game where they really pushed up and were aggressive, only lasted about 10 mins though. Just frustrates me, it should be a given all the time
Quite often when this is happening if you pay attention to the ref you'll find he's calling the tacklers out of the ruck really quickly, this means the defensive line isn't getting that extra half second or so to get onside, pause, and then rush up in defense. When the ref decides that the defensive team is being dominant and doesn't call off the tacklers, the defensive line speed is great.
Which is where refs need to stop trying to interpret the game and start calling the rules. You see it at the end of close matches too, the team in the lead is watched like a hawk, especially when they are defending in their own half. Fair enough, can't have teams cheating, but if you watch the Manly Canberra last five minutes, Manly tacklers are being called off really quickly, 6 agains are going to Canberra, and yet when Manly get the ball and go to run it out Canberra is way off side in defense several tackles in a row. Because the ref interprets the game in a way that makes Manly in that situation the prime suspect for indiscretions, he doesn't even notice Canberra blatant cheating.