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Nope. Homophobia is a funny thing that people often misunderstand.What if you take morals out of it? What if I don't care if you're gay but find the acts disgusting (well between men at least)
Is it fair to label someone a homophobe because they find the act disgusting?
What's the difference between labeling someone a "***" and a "homophobe"?
Homophobia is literally just a fear that if you accept homosexuals then it'll lead to worse things. These comments are homophobic:
"We can't allow gay marriage 'cause pedophilia will be next"
"If we allow gay people in our society then more people will become gay"
It's a phobia or fear based around homosexuality.
When you say, "I don't care if you're gay but find the acts disgusting". You're not being homophobic, you're being both accepting and honest. I mean, I find it disgusting too. If you don't have an automatic disgust reaction to it then you're probably gay. And I fully understand that a gay bloke would think that sex with a woman is disgusting.