The "R U OK ?" Thread

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Well I can’t say I have... although I am on the outer at work, so if I wind up working somewhere else, chances are they’ll make an appearance lol.
A change of job can do you good bro. Hope all goes well for you
 

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Again lacking control of my emotions.

Thoughts of helplessness and feeling useless are returning.

I get the feeling my supervisor at work will get sick of me and let me go.

I turn up to work,I do my job but I keep getting self hating thoughts enter my head and I can't control it.
 

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Again lacking control of my emotions.

Thoughts of helplessness and feeling useless are returning.

I get the feeling my supervisor at work will get sick of me and let me go.

I turn up to work,I do my job but I keep getting self hating thoughts enter my head and I can't control it.
They come and go dude. Dont push it away rather let it pass through. They will disappear believe you me.
As time goes on, they come back less often and even when they do, you manage it a lot better.
But dont give up on exploring yourself man. Even half a step is progress, trust me on this.
 

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They come and go dude. Dont push it away rather let it pass through. They will disappear believe you me.
As time goes on, they come back less often and even when they do, you manage it a lot better.
But dont give up on exploring yourself man. Even half a step is progress, trust me on this.
My life really does feel like a waste of time with no purpose.

I always feel bored,empty and nothing in no particular order.

I've tried speaking to so called professionals and getting help but it hasn't been working.
 

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My life really does feel like a waste of time with no purpose.

I always feel bored,empty and nothing in no particular order.

I've tried speaking to so called professionals and getting help but it hasn't been working.
Been feeling the same way these past few days. Not as bad as it has been in the past but that's coz I now know that it's not the real me and it will eventually pass by. There's no point wasting my energy to fight it anymore. Just gonna let it be...
 

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Howdy brothers. I have been offline for a few weeks. On going issues with my eyes, but life goes on. I rest up for a few weeks and the Dogs win 4 in a row, Nathan Brown stands down and the Sharks are over the cap. Well only one surprise in there. Hope everyone is doing ok.
Don't know what it is but you seem different!

I have lost my sense of smell due to the Parkinsons but that is nothing to what your going through.

So I hope things improve for you and remember keep positive.
 

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Don't know what it is but you seem different!

I have lost my sense of smell due to the Parkinsons but that is nothing to what your going through.

So I hope things improve for you and remember keep positive.

Different...more bitter and twisted?
Sorry to hear of your loss of smell.
 

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Different...more bitter and twisted?
Sorry to hear of your loss of smell.
Gents, as someone who lost a child recently, I have learned it's not a contest :grinning:

I hope everyone is doing ok.
 

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Gents, as someone who lost a child recently, I have learned it's not a contest :grinning:

I hope everyone is doing ok.
Shit man, very sorry to hear of your loss.
I hope you’re doing ok mate, never seen you mention that you had anything going on.

Take care of you and your loved ones bud...
 

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I really hate being a human.
I hate the way we live.

I don't love money,I don't love pointless material possessions and I don't believe in zombie gods!
 

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Gents, as someone who lost a child recently, I have learned it's not a contest :grinning:

I hope everyone is doing ok.
Sheesh man..my heartfelt condolences to you and your family..
 

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Gents, as someone who lost a child recently, I have learned it's not a contest :grinning:

I hope everyone is doing ok.
What? I had no idea mate. I hope you and Mrs CD are alright mate :(
 
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