Marriage

[Wolfmother]

My friend married a guy about a month ago after knowing him for only a short time , shes mid 20's beautiful inside and out, really intelligent as well but she revealed to me that her heart doesn't skip a beat when she sees him .. She asked me if that's normal I told her that phase only lasts a few months and that its more important that they get along and have the same values which they do ( both are very religious Muslims ) ..

I am hesitant to get involved .

Is love/lust overrated in a marriage?

 

[CrittaMagic69]

People still get married these days? Lol.

 

[jmaamary]

People still get married these days? Lol.

Unfortunately yes

 

[CrittaMagic69]

Unfortunately yes

Im 22 and have no intention of getting married, though i have yet to come across someone id be happy to stick around with till i die i guess lol. I actually have one mate getting married this year, so i asked him why and he said "mum made me do it" hahaha.

 

[Mitch Connor]

I'm 26 and just ended a 3 year relationship because I didn't care for the "we better get married before I'm 30" bullshit some women have implanted in their brain.

 

[south of heaven]

I'm 26 and just ended a 3 year relationship because I didn't care for the "we better get married before I'm 30" bullshit some women have implanted in their brain.

Im 37 with 5 kids and still not married lol

 

[Indiandog]

tbh , from my experience no matter how hot your partner may be before marriage, after marriage it is only a year of living together the "love/lust" kinda wears off.

in every successful marriage , over all one partner has to sacrifice more than the others.

no two people are the same in this world.

love/sex/lust is only a minor part of the marriage tbh.

 

[The DoggFather]

Marry a funny/childish ****. It's my only advice lol

 

[Mitch Connor]

Im 37 with 5 kids and still not married lol

I also don't really want kids so that was another issue haha.

 

[NallaC]

Everyone is different. Its hard to say some people need to date for ever some don't.Some need a missed heart beat others don't.I say stay well away from advice and let them sort it out.
For me i moved in with my wife after our second date , we were married 18 months later and now have three kids . We never dated just basically meet ,shacked up had a kid got married and life could not be any better.
My wife is my best friend and lover all rolled into one package.

 

[jmaamary]

Im 22 and have no intention of getting married, though i have yet to come across someone id be happy to stick around with till i die i guess lol. I actually have one mate getting married this year, so i asked him why and he said "mum made me do it" hahaha.

Hahahahaha

 

[Wolfmother]

Everyone is different. Its hard to say some people need to date for ever some don't.Some need a missed heart beat others don't.I say stay well away from advice and let them sort it out.
For me i moved in with my wife after our second date , we were married 18 months later and now have three kids . We never dated just basically meet ,shacked up had a kid got married and life could not be any better.
My wife is my best friend and lover all rolled into one package.

on the second date ? Wow
It seems you were made for each other

 

[Wolfmother]

Marry a funny/childish ****. It's my only advice lol

I like this trait . Not so much the childish part but being able to make your partner laugh especially when times get tough

 

[sgodllubsti]

i been happily married for 19 years and still going great, marriage and my kids have been the best thing ever

 

[The DoggFather]

I like this trait . Not so much the childish part but being able to make your partner laugh especially when times get tough

How do you think I kept my wife after getting sick? Making her laugh and keeping her on her toes lol

 

[The DoggFather]

PS i didnt mean childish childish, more like young at heart, a joker.

 

[Wolfmother]

How do you think I kept my wife after getting sick? Making her laugh and keeping her on her toes lol

She's a lucky girl

 

[south of heaven]

Marry a funny/childish ****. It's my only advice lol

It was my witty charm that lured the mrs , now its her eternal curse. The less she is amused by my shit bag antics the more I laugh

 

[The DoggFather]

It was my witty charm that lured the mrs , now its her eternal curse. The less she is amused by my shit bag antics the more I laugh

Lol, sometimes that's more funnier than the prank.

 

[Wolfmother]

i been happily married for 19 years and still going great, marriage and my kids have been the best thing ever

What's your secret?